Thursday, December 27, 2012
January 2013
Greetings Everyone,
Looking forward to some wonderful things in 2013. The second Tuesday in January please join me on Tweet Chat...Girlfriends Pray at 9pm, what an awesome team. We will have a great time. The third Tuesday in January I will be on www.blogtalkradio.com/GodlyWomansView great discussions, feel free to call in 310-742-1768.
Would love to hear from you.
Thank You.
Dr. Cheryl
Sunday, September 9, 2012
Pastors & Ministers Wives
Starting November 10, 2012 every second Saturday there will be a Pastors & Ministers Wives Support Group. Come you will have a wonderful experience, the time is
10am to 12 noon. Give me a call 908-764-6560 or email: drcherylhardy@gmail.com.
Saturday, August 18, 2012
Parenting for All Ages
On Tuesday August 14, 2012 Parents was highlighted on Blog Talk Radio A Godly Women's View Show. Parents you have an awesome responsibility and your job as a parent is honorable. You are the first teachers & role model for your children.
For more information go to www.blogtalkradio/agodlywomensview and listen to the panel discussion. Guess who was on the panel?? Host: Co Pastor Anita Spaulding, Pastor Dr. Richard Spaulding, Co Pastor: Barbara Holmes & Contributor: Dr. Cheryl Hardy, PhD.
I am excited to announce to everyone that I will be a Contributor on the Radio Show Every 3rd Tuesday of the month. Feel free to call in on Tuesdays 8:30pm to 9:30pm with your questions. 310-742-1768 you can email your questions AskDr.Cheryl@gmail.com.
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Parenting Adult Children
Parents we are not raising children we are raising adults sometimes once the children become adults we act as though they are children. Each age brings on a different stage, and when your children get older your parenting style will have to change. Why because they are adults not children? I am a firm believer that children and parents should be respected highly. Parents yes of course you remember when they were born you were there pushing and pressing that beautiful human being in the world. Once you have done your job as a good parent for 18 years, trust them. They heard what you said and believe in them after all they are a part of you, or in the back of your mind are you afraid of that, OH NO please don’t act like me. Your children are not you, they have there own identity, ways, personalities, character, thinking abilities, gifts & talents and it may not be nothing like yours. Love them, support them, and believe in them. It is amazing how adult children are more sensitive with age and they want acceptance at the ages of 18, 25, 30, 48 yes in there 50’s also.
It is important to be kind to your children remember you rolled them around in a stroller when they were babies, and they may roll you in a wheelchair or walk alongside of your in a scooter later. Plant the seed of kind words, tell them you love them, exercise together, and go to the movies together. Talk to your children once they are adults many things should change, for instant the tone of your voice, your attitude. Some parents make it clear quite often,” I am the parent I brought you in this world and I will take you out.” They know you are the parent just walk in your Godly calling and be a role model not a police officer. Yelling at your children when they were a child is the same when they become an adult they will shut you out much quicker and they may stay away.
You need your adult children, one of saddest things I have witness was a mother of 6 girls she was so mean to her daughters growing up when she passed away not one of her daughters attended the funeral her sisters and brother made the final arrangements. That said a lot, embrace your adult children, and talk to them with care and love on them. Allow them to fly don’t clip there wings with harsh word and bossy ways, let them fly like an eagle and let them run this race of life and not faint for goodness and mercy shall follow them all the days of there life because you set a wonderful legacy of love, peace & patience.
It is important to be kind to your children remember you rolled them around in a stroller when they were babies, and they may roll you in a wheelchair or walk alongside of your in a scooter later. Plant the seed of kind words, tell them you love them, exercise together, and go to the movies together. Talk to your children once they are adults many things should change, for instant the tone of your voice, your attitude. Some parents make it clear quite often,” I am the parent I brought you in this world and I will take you out.” They know you are the parent just walk in your Godly calling and be a role model not a police officer. Yelling at your children when they were a child is the same when they become an adult they will shut you out much quicker and they may stay away.
You need your adult children, one of saddest things I have witness was a mother of 6 girls she was so mean to her daughters growing up when she passed away not one of her daughters attended the funeral her sisters and brother made the final arrangements. That said a lot, embrace your adult children, and talk to them with care and love on them. Allow them to fly don’t clip there wings with harsh word and bossy ways, let them fly like an eagle and let them run this race of life and not faint for goodness and mercy shall follow them all the days of there life because you set a wonderful legacy of love, peace & patience.
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Fathers Rocks
Happy New Year to all the good fathers, we often talk about mothers as we should but I am taking the time to recognize the fathers. There are some good fathers who are putting in there time 100% and I so proud of all of you. I watch the fathers quite often. Where I work there’s a men program and to see the group and cohesiveness is admirable. I watch the fathers at church and they are hands on taking care of their children. Then on a personal note I see my son Mr. Al Hardy, who is one of the Best Dad I ever seen. He connect, share, talk to the children, give them illustrations and most of all he has patience. Sometimes I wonder if the families and that’s everyone who is related to the children are aware of this. So many times good people go unnoticed and taking for granted and the dead beat dad gets so much attention.
I just want to give a shot out to all the active, hardworking, loving Good Fathers all over the world, if no one has told you I want to say Thank You. As a Counselor I Thank You.
You are creating stability, strength & power in the child’s life. This helps ground them with foundational love from a man. To all the Fathers who are involved in your child’s life HAPPY 2012, there are 12 months in a year & 12 disciples in the bible. So I say to you use the 12 month to be in your child’s life show up daily, and discipline conditioning yourself for you are the unspoken hero.
Father’s Rock
I just want to give a shot out to all the active, hardworking, loving Good Fathers all over the world, if no one has told you I want to say Thank You. As a Counselor I Thank You.
You are creating stability, strength & power in the child’s life. This helps ground them with foundational love from a man. To all the Fathers who are involved in your child’s life HAPPY 2012, there are 12 months in a year & 12 disciples in the bible. So I say to you use the 12 month to be in your child’s life show up daily, and discipline conditioning yourself for you are the unspoken hero.
Father’s Rock
New Year & New Moves
This is the year of 2012 what are you going to do with your time, it's time to make moves? Are you willing to make steps towards a better you? I would say sit down and complete an overview of last year. What have you accomplished, worked on or working towards during the year of 2011. How are you going to move forward in 2012 in these 5 ways?
Financially- one can save more money this year by putting away $20.00 bi-weekly you will have $520.00 by the end of the year.
Spiritually- your relationship with God; I will talk to God in prayer so my life will be manageable and in order.
Emotionally- to work on being in charge of my feelings and not react to everything put things in perspective and I will have to pause and think.
Physically- to look good, feel good, and love the only body I will every have, exercise, eat right and put good things in my body.
Mentally- think clearly and when you feel that time of unraveling staying to long seek professional help, no one has to know. Counseling will give you a mental tune-up to face life and see things in a better way. Beware of the curbside counseling or just talking to anyone. Be mentally free!!
Make moves this year towards a better you. It Time To Move, to everything there is a time and season.
Move and grow this is a New Year!!
You can order my book: Its Time To Move
www.drcherylhardy.com
Financially- one can save more money this year by putting away $20.00 bi-weekly you will have $520.00 by the end of the year.
Spiritually- your relationship with God; I will talk to God in prayer so my life will be manageable and in order.
Emotionally- to work on being in charge of my feelings and not react to everything put things in perspective and I will have to pause and think.
Physically- to look good, feel good, and love the only body I will every have, exercise, eat right and put good things in my body.
Mentally- think clearly and when you feel that time of unraveling staying to long seek professional help, no one has to know. Counseling will give you a mental tune-up to face life and see things in a better way. Beware of the curbside counseling or just talking to anyone. Be mentally free!!
Make moves this year towards a better you. It Time To Move, to everything there is a time and season.
Move and grow this is a New Year!!
You can order my book: Its Time To Move
www.drcherylhardy.com
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